The Fleshlight (or, if we're avoiding branding, the less nattily-titled 'male masturbator') is a pretty basic concept.
It's a squishy thing into which you put your penis, usually surrounded by a flashlight-like case. This case provides a bunch of different benefits: it keeps its inner loose and flexible, it holds in any lube to stop it escaping, it usually includes an end cap which can be adjusted to change the amount of vacuum the case creates, and it disguises the toy. Many Fleshlight-type toys now go for more flashy cases, or even employ a clear outer and inner so you can see what's going on.
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Some open-ended strokers have a surrounding case which helps protect their softer inner material – those without a case can often tend to employ stiffer material, which isn't always entirely pleasant. BEST SEX TOYS FOR GAY MEN BEGINNIER HOW TO.